Posted in March 2015

a meltdown is not a tantrum

a meltdown is not a tantrum

{image is a photo of a young man curled into a ball, covering his head with his hands} – On the outside it might look like a sudden explosion, but it’s actually the final few minutes of a process that may have taken hours or even days to develop. Bec at Snagglebox, What Does a … Continue reading

autism respect month

autism respect month

April is coming. We all know what that means. A whole lot of talk about autism. Some of it constructive. A lot of it really damn DEstructive. My dear friend, M, who is autistic, recently wrote: One of the most common complaints I hear from parents with children on the spectrum is that, when they … Continue reading

a conversation about disability, equality, and the bachelor finale – this is my life, people

a conversation about disability, equality, and the bachelor finale – this is my life, people

{image is a photo of Chris Soules, better known to Bachelor watchers as The Farmer. Don’t judge.} Ableism (/ˈeɪbəlɪzəm/) is a form of discrimination or social prejudice against people with disabilities. It may also be referred to as disability discrimination, ablecentrism, physicalism, handicapism, and disability oppression. – Wikipedia – On Tuesday, I took the day … Continue reading

scared

scared

{image is a photo of Brooke hanging out at Boston Children’s Blood Donor Center, waiting for me to be called in to donate platelets.} “Thank you again for coming with me to the hospital today, kiddo,” I say into the darkness of her room before bedtime. “It meant a lot to me.” “I’m glad I … Continue reading

a powerful weapon

a powerful weapon

Diary’s Facebook page, Saturday night … {image is a screenshot of a comment from a reader who was [at the Dancing with the Celebrities event] tonight reading, “The best part was watching Katie’s face while watching her mom. She was impressed, hard thing to do with a teen. } I will cherish this – for so … Continue reading

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From Diary’s Facebook page last night … {image is a photo of Katie and me on Jetties Beach, Nantucket, 2008.} When I started writing Diary, Katie was 7. Tonight, I’m taking her to her high school orientation. Don’t blink, my friends. Don’t blink. #NotADoctorWhoReference – The evening has been a blur of information. The kids … Continue reading